DISSATISFACTION
IS A DISEASE
One thing that
we all have to accept is each one of us is suffering from a kind of disease
that is dissatisfaction, but it is true that dissatisfaction is a kind of
disease if it is not treated at proper time, it will become a serious problem
for the human beings itself and their surrounding friends and family members.
It is a
definite thing that every person has so many reasons for getting dissatisfied,
but if we see and observe, we find that there are so many reasons which tell us
why a person should not get dissatisfied?
Now the
question rises here that what do I mean by positive things? The question itself
answers.
there are so
many incidents that happens in our daily routine work like you are in tension
because you have to go to a party and your servant didn‟t iron your cloths,
because of the routine of your job, one of your colleague is on leave without
any information, so your work load is increased suddenly, you are going to take
your regular lecture but suddenly you find that you forget to prepare regular
notes, you know that some of the members are not working at their full
efficiency and the list of complaints and dissatisfaction goes increasing on
and on … people have sufficient reasons for getting dissatisfied.
But just think
for a while, how many of our friend‟s circles have servants, job and their own
vehicles? How many of us are invited to parties, and the instantly you ask such
kind of questions to yourself then answer strikes in your mind and gives a
great peace. This is an uncountable truth that we people belong to a very small
but very lucky minority group of people of this universe who have no reason of
getting dissatisfied.
there is a
formulae of always remaining satisfied that whenever you have a feeling of
getting dissatisfied for such kind of small reasons, just make a general
comparison of yourself with those men‟s and women‟s of your society, colony,
city or nation who do not have lovely place to live, electricity at their home,
sufficient food to eat and proper work to earn their livelihood. You will
definitely get answer and reasons why you always remain satisfied.
Here I don‟t
want to say that people don‟t have dream and don‟t get ambitious. But I just
want to suggest you that dreaming of anything big is right, being ambitious
about anything is a right but set your goals because you want to achieve with
your hard work not because of the comparisons. Suppose, you want to “purchase
an expensive car” it‟s great but before you do so first make it clear that why
you want that car
1. Because you really like and need it?
2. Or you want
it because you compared your living standard with the people of highly
sophisticated elite ones.
If you belong
to the first category then it is very good, and starts working for it. But if
you belong to second category then this comparison will lead you to a great
level of dissatisfaction.
At last I want
to share a great Gandhigiri thought with all of you “ yahaan dunia ki
jarooraton ke anoosar paryapt dhan hai, lekin wo dunia ke lalach ke liye
paryapt nahi hai”.
So whenever
you get dissatisfied, just think on these talisman and you will automatically
get answer and pacify yourself.
“So keep
smiling and remain satisfied because satisfaction is the key of getting soothe
and diminish you sorrows”