The pathetic ones in life………………………………………

The pathetic ones in life……………………………………….

In the modern day life routine we all have already missed so many things. it is very true to admit that it is quit impossible to achieve most of the things once again like cooking food as it was prepared by our mother or again having the summer vacation as we have enjoyed in our childhood, But out of loosing such things; we have also lost a very important fact that is the art of making real friends and to nourish the relation of friendship.

I remember those friends who used to come to my house during my childhood; truly they were the real friends. They belong to simple middle class families but their relation of friendship was honest. My family did not have relations with them from generations but we only know them from certain years, we always feel comfortable with them and always have secure feeling among them. We always behave in front of them in a manner what we really are, and we need not to create any facade in front of them.

When I look behind, I use to think that now a days the feeling of socialism is getting weaker day by day. In present days we all have so much modern ways of communication but if we realize, we really find that how many true friends we have lost.

With the help of modern means of communications like internet, social networking websites we are in touch with the unknown people who are residing thousands of kilometers from us, but we did not have time to meet to our friends who are just few steps away from us in our city. If we try to realize that why this is happening with us???

We all know the answer of this question, that is lack of time and as well as opportunities but  more of this there is one more reason that is lack of care for and our nature of being ambitious. Due to this nature we only make friendship with those people to whom we know and have some profit issues with them. As our profit issues get fulfilled with them, we leave them. If you see your old diaries and old visiting cards then you will get the answer.

It is hard to accept that we usually choose those persons for our friendship whose social status is equal to us or colleague in the office, and if we analyze, we can understand that what we become in our free time, from my point of view we will become a complete “office PUPPET PACKAGE”.

It means on holiday you are with your friends (office colleague) and you all are discussing about college, again you put all your aggression in that gossip. Instead of feeling relax after meeting with friends you will feel tensed.

Therefore pick the old dairies from the cubord and dial the telephone number of your old college or school friend to whom you did not talk for many years. Believe me when you talk about your old days, when you laugh on the jokes that you made of your professors and teachers then you definitely feel calm and automatically your blood pressure get normal.

 Always remember “friends are forever” and say thanks to god that you still have some friends to whom you can make call.