Wednesday 25 June 2014

“Success lies in failure”

              “Success lies in Failure”
Every year during the time of examination results we see many kind of faces of young generations boys and girls. Many times we see the faces which were cheered because of their success but many faces were despond of their failure in the results, sometime this depression may lead to the suicide cases. And this is a very serious issue but I just want signalize our concern to only one thing that we should change our retention regarding failure. We should not take that failure as a definitive thing, that failure is an impermanent thing of our life. Don’t say that situation as failure just consider that thing as calamity or just a hurdle of your life, never take that failure in negative manner take that situation in a positive way it might be possible that hurdle or so called ‘failure’ may teach you an  unprecedented and important lesson of your life.
If you become able to take that failure just only as one of the hurdle of your life than you will definitely see some constructive changes in your life. And my dear that failure is not the end of the road but it is just a simple turn of road of success that may lead to the new wide paths to move on. i want to ask a simple question to the parents that can they tell me the name of persons who were very great in their specialized field like sports; music, business or politics were also touch the pinnacle of success in their education life? Most probably the answer will be a very big no, which means that a minor failure or an obstacle may not shut the door of success.
Human history is full of many names who were not good in one field but were the star performer of some other field. i am going to put some strong examples of some great great personalities like the famous Thomas Edison was considered a "dull student" by his teachers and was thought to be extremely disruptive in class and so was asked to leave. One teacher told him he was too stupid to learn anything. But at age of 10 he set up a lab in his basement and was already starting to work on experiments and inventions. , great businessman and investor warren buffet was also not good in his school education, the most influential technological mind of the past century has been Steve Jobs, the co-founder of Apple had never finished his college in his life.
Similarly there is one more personality without which this discussion cannot get completed that is Mr. Amitabh Bachchan who also see many ups and down in his personal, financial as well as in his film carrier but he did not kneel in front of challenges that occurs in his life.
Now a day’s education sector is considered to be the most challenging field but we all know that problems and challenges are the part of life they usually come in every field like in our financial status, business, relationship and in many field of this long journey.
That why it is very much necessary that Instead of being afraid of problems and hurdles we must analyze the problems. Whatever is the decision that we take regarding any problem or situation there is 50-50 chances of whether it would went right or wrong. But all the same we have to take decisions, that why we should all have to accept that the path towards success always be full of failures and problems.
I have heard somewhere that the only difference between the successful and unsuccessful person is the way how they take the situation, and how much they enthusiastic to learn from their failures and challenges of their life. That we can easily learn from the Thomas Alva Edison that he always says about journey of experiments that-“I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”  This motivational line always gives us a message that the seeds of plant of success lies in failure.


Tuesday 10 June 2014

A PERFECT CUP OF TEA CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE………………


 A PERFECT CUP OF TEA CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE………………

एक कप अच्छी चाय में क्या क्या होना ज़रूरी हैजनाब।थोड़ा सा दूध,गर्म पानी में घुली हुई चाय की पत्तियाँ,और स्वाद बड़ाने के लिए थोड़ी सी शक्कर के साथ एक धीमी आंच पर हल्का सा “PERFECT उबाल। हाँ! यही तो है एक प्याली चाय की PERFECT RECIPE शायद ये सवाल किसी से भी पूछा जाता तो जवाब यही होता।
गज़ब की बात तो ये है कि हम सबको एक कप चाय की RECIPE तो पता है पर ये नहीं पता की एक अच्छी “PERFECT AND SATISFIED LIFE को बनाने का “FORMULA क्या है?इस दौड़ती भागती सी ज़िंदगी में अगर ज़िंदगी नाम की “PERFECT चाय का प्याला बनाना है। तो जरूरी है,कि हम इसमें प्यार,अपनेपन और ईमानदारी का “PERFECT RATIOमें चुनाव कर मिलाएँ और इसे समझदारी और भरोसे की धीमी आंच पर उबाल दें।
अक्सर घरों में होने वाले तनाव का मुख्य कारण कोई बहुत बड़ी बात नहीं होती,बस होते हैं तो बहुत ही छोटे छोटे कारण जिन पर हमारा ध्यान नहीं जाता और ये छोटी छोटी बातें कब बड़ी बन जाती हैं पता ही नहीं चलताजैसे अगर हम चाय के बर्तन को सही आंच न दे तो या तो वो कम आंच की वजह से कच्ची रह जाएगी या ज्यादा आंच की वजह से जल जाएगी।जैसे शक्कर चाय की प्याली में सिर्फ इसीलिए मिलाई जाती है ताकि ज़रा सी मिठास के साथ स्वाद बड़  जाए पर गलती से भी इसकी अधिकता या कमी स्वाद को बिगाड़ सकती हैइसी तरह अगर आप अपने जीवन रूपी चाय मे छोटे छोटे INGREDIENTS जैसे अपने लाइफ पार्टनर पर भरोसा,उसके साथ ईमानदारी भरा व्यवहार और रिश्ते में मिठास बड़ाने के लिए वक़्त-वक़्त पर उन्हे ये एहसास कराना की वो आपके लिए कितने खास हैं,बेहद ही ज़रूरी हैपर उससे भी ज्यादा एहम है कि ये सब एक सही मात्रा में किया जाए,नहीं तो किसी भी चीज की अधिकता स्वाद को बिगाड़ भी सकती है,जैसे शक्कर की ज्यादा मात्रा “SUGAR” की बीमारी भी दे सकती है।
कहते हैं न “कि ज़िंदगी एक कप चाय की तरह है जैसा बनाएँगे वैसा ही स्वाद देगी।"
तो बस तैयार हो जाएँ अपने जीवन रूपी चाय के प्याले की स्वादभरी और PERFECT चुस्की लेने के लिए।

क्योंकि एक प्याली चाय रिश्ते बना सकती है..........”

Monday 9 June 2014

STRAIGHT FROM MY HEART.................


"jaana na tha jise aaj achanak yaad uski aa gayi,

chahat thi jiski achanak samne wo aa gaye, 


khayalo me kai doobe honge uske,


par wo hame samne dekh achank sharma gayi"

gori hai gulal ..........................................................................



A HOLI SPECIAL FEELING 


"gori hai gulal mat, mat kar tu malal bas haan kar,

hai ye milan ka tyohaar tu is tarah ise bekar na kar,


rangon se bhari pichkaari hai,


dil me dono ke umango ki khumari hai,


aaja aaja mein maldoon gulal tohe,


na me manoonga chahe roke ye baire jag mohe".

Saturday 7 June 2014

IRREFUTED PAST…………

IRREFUTED PAST…………
Do you know the cause of mourning is that most of us always remain in anxiety due to the things that  happened in their past or due to things that would happen in future or always remain thinking of their future or past. We did not try to take the advantages of the things at hand while living in today. And we usually picture of those incidents which affected our life very much, most of the times of those which were the unconstructive, unenthusiastic and we keep saying to our self that –“I wish I could turn back time passed”.  Or “how it would be if it were not like that???
If we did not try to remember our past incidents pleasingly, we use to hold responsible some other persons for those incidents. i saw some people in our society, friend circle and in family also, who failed to accept their past, whether it would be some financial loss or failure in their married life. Such sort of people always delimited themselves with their past reminiscences and failed to breathe in their present, failed to realize their plans in their present, because their past always barge in, in their present. Sediment easily make abode in their intelligence and due to this the conditions get awful in life.
My friends always keep in mind the past cannot be changed and future is precarious, so why we fritter away our present for the stuff which cannot be changed and the thing which is indefinite. We have the only thing in our hand that is present and our efforts to build our present can craft our blissful future. So it is very much necessary that we must live in present .Make use of and enjoy each and every second of our life.
My grandmother used to advise me a simple lesson of life in one line during my childhood “life is not the name of being afraid of storm, it is name of dancing flawlessly in rain” I used to ask her what does these line meant for? And she always smiled and said my child one day when you will learn to live and enjoy your present then you will automatically understand the meaning of these lines. And now I understand what my grandmother wants to teach me.
I learn that do not try to run away from any empirically of life. Live each second of life like it would be your last day. There is a famous phrase “if you take care of pennies then the pounds will take care of themselves”. Similarly if we try to live each and every second of life in a joy full manner then automatically our life will be full of happiness.

Forget the disappointment of your past and forget the problems that can take place in future, make your today as the finest day of the year .and cheerless line that you can say is “if I would get one more life I will …….” Stop saying such kind of idiotic things, today is the only day so hold your breath to get start………..